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I cheated with a girl. He took me back but am I bi? Lesbian?

I cheated with a girl. He took me back but am I bi? Lesbian?

Question asked by Laura (21 years old questioning woman from Peru, Peru)

Question answered on August 4, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Laura, Thank you for writing into Alterheros with your question. You explain that you recently had an experience with a girl while still in a relationship with your boyfriend. After disclosing this to your boyfriend, he is willing to put this aside and to continue the relationship, but you ... Read more.
How can I be in a relationship with a man if I don’t find him sexually attractive?

How can I be in a relationship with a man if I don’t find him sexually attractive?

Question asked by Emily (16 years old questioning woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on July 7, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Emily, Your message shows that you are caught in great dichotomies: female versus male, emotional/romantic attachment versus sexual attraction, and assertion and confusion. It also indicates that you pay attention to various components of a relationship, and that you care deeply for the boy you are with. This by no ... Read more.
(Français) Est-ce que la pénétration anale fait mal ?

(Français) Est-ce que la pénétration anale fait mal ?

Question asked by pascAL (Homme de 16 ans, Canada, Canada)

Question answered on February 3, 2010 by

Sorted in Questions, Sex

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My bi friends say I’m not bi because I won’t have sex with girls

My bi friends say I’m not bi because I won’t have sex with girls

Question asked by Rebekkah (14 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 28, 2010 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Rebekkah, Thank you for writing to Alterheros. What I understand is that you would like to know if you are bi or not. From my experience, I would tell you that it is very normal to not be certain of your sexual orientation, especially when you are young. With time and ... Read more.
(Français) Pensez-vous qu’il a une relation hétéro avec moi mais que c’est pour cacher son homosexualité ?

(Français) Pensez-vous qu’il a une relation hétéro avec moi mais que c’est pour cacher son homosexualité ?

Question asked by abbygaelle (Femme de 29 ans, France, France)

Question answered on January 19, 2010 by

Sorted in Questions, Outing

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How long must I live as a woman before I can be administered hormones for my transition?

How long must I live as a woman before I can be administered hormones for my transition?

Question asked by nataliee (18 years old questioning woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on October 12, 2009 by

Sorted in Questions, Transition, Transsexuality

Dear Nataliee, Congratulations for embarking on your transition journey. The answers to your questions have been discussed by many professionals over the years. The first widely used guidelines for the treatment of Transsexuals were put forward by Dr. Harry Benjamin, a German endocrinologist during the 60s. These guidelines have now ... Read more.
Why do I need to fantasize about men to have an orgasm if I only like women?

Why do I need to fantasize about men to have an orgasm if I only like women?

Question asked by MJ Jackson (24 years old questioning woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on March 8, 2009 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Questions, Relationships

Hi MJ – thank you for your question. I will start with saying congratulations for following your heart and engaging in a relationship with someone who you clearly find has many great qualities. I will continue by saying emphatically that just because you imagine men when you are having sex with ... Read more.
What is happening to me ? I love my boyfriend, but I have thoughts that I might be attracted by females

What is happening to me ? I love my boyfriend, but I have thoughts that I might be attracted by females

Question asked by laura (19 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 20, 2009 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Laura, thank you for your question. If I can reassure you from the start, I think that the questionning you are going through right now is normal. Sexuality, and sexual orientation in particular, are not always simple issues and often bring about many questions that aren't easy to deal with. What I ... Read more.
Being gay in Mexico

Being gay in Mexico

Article published on October 18, 2006 in AlterHeroes by François Paquette

Sorted in Cultures, Dossiers, Gay living

This interview has been made with Victor, a Mexican-born lawyer who lived for more than 30 years in Mexico, before moving to Canada with his boyfriend three years ago… This interview reflects his own experience, not a professional point of view. The issues presented here are not absolute facts, only opinions of a person that [...]

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I often think about my friend, am I bisexual ?

I often think about my friend, am I bisexual ?

Question asked by Cerena (20 years old questioning woman from Tanzania, Tanzania)

Question answered on May 25, 2006 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Bisexuality, Questions

Dear Cerena, Thanks for writing to Alterheros. It sounds like you are in the process of coming to some understanding as to what sexual orientation fits for you. A short answer to your question 'Am I bisexual?' is that only you can know the answer to that. It ... Read more.
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