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I want a straight life but enjoy gay porn

I want a straight life but enjoy gay porn

Question asked by alex (21 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 4, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hey there Alex, I hope I can help with your question. I know it's not the easiest thing to talk about considering you and your friend don't even speak about it. To my understanding there's two separate parts to this situation. I understand that your currently questioning your own sexuality, which ... Read more.
What if I’m a lesbian? My attractions confuse me.

What if I’m a lesbian? My attractions confuse me.

Question asked by Charlotte (14 years old questioning woman)

Question answered on March 2, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi Charlotte! First off, let me say I'm so glad that you chose to write to Alterheros - the most important thing for you to realize is that you are not alone. At your age, nobody is sure about who they are or what they want - in terms of sexuality ... Read more.
Do you think I’m a lesbian because of my boyfriend troubles?

Do you think I’m a lesbian because of my boyfriend troubles?

Question asked by Nelly (20 years old questioning woman from New Zealand, New Zealand)

Question answered on October 21, 2009 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions, Coming out

Hi Nelly, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like you're in a difficult spot! From what you're telling me, it sounds like from your past emotions and reactions to past sexual encounters with your boyfriend and girls, that there are a lot of things going on. ... Read more.
Negative beliefs about men might be ruining my relationship.

Negative beliefs about men might be ruining my relationship.

Question asked by Kathleen (21 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 25, 2009 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions, Relationships

Dear Kathleen, It is really impressive that you know why you feel doubtful of men. The events you are describing are all things that both genders are capable of, which I'm sure you're aware of. Both women and men cheat. Both mothers and fathers cheat. Women are capable ... Read more.
I want to talk to her but how ?

I want to talk to her but how ?

Question asked by secret (16 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on February 22, 2009 by

Sorted in First experiences, Questions

Hi there, thank you for your question. Having a crush on someone is a really exciting feeling, yet sometimes it may cause some anxiety when you don't know the person very much and are afraid to approch them. Not knowing the person makes it obviously very difficult to predict what their reaction ... Read more.
Am I too clingy ?

Am I too clingy ?

Question asked by C-Ham (15 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on October 29, 2007 by

Sorted in Questions, Relationships

Dear C-Ham, If I understand your question well, you seem to worry that you might be too clingy to your girlfriend. I can tell you that your feelings are really not so strange; since lots of people feel clingy when they are "in love". These feelings of loneliness, longing, fear (of ... Read more.
I now admit I’m bisexual but I’m afraid to tell others

I now admit I’m bisexual but I’m afraid to tell others

Question asked by Amy

Question answered on July 12, 2004 by

Sorted in Questions

Hi Amy and thanks for your message. Let me tell you that it takes a lot of courage to accept ones' true feelings and attractions to people of the same sex and to not deny them. Hence, I commend you for doing that since it's one of the most difficult ... Read more.
I am married but I can’t be happy unless I am be myself.  Can you help me?

I am married but I can’t be happy unless I am be myself. Can you help me?

Question asked by Amy

Question answered on February 25, 2004 by

Sorted in Questions

Hi Sam, If l was you, l would start by being proud of myself, and happy: you are 22 you have clear idea of who and what you are. It's almost funny that too often just being yourself can hurt others, and even worse, those that you love so much. ... Read more.
Advice to Parents

Advice to Parents

My own child is transsexual – male to female, and transitioned in her late teens. This is a very brief resume of some of the stresses and practical problems facing a family with such a child, who may still be at school or college, and is probably still living at home. Knowing that they have [...]

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Scared about being bisexual

Scared about being bisexual

Question asked by Amy

Question answered on June 6, 2003 by

Sorted in Questions

Dear Linda, You've posed a very interesting and very relevant question.  Everyone reacts to the discovery of their true sexual identity in a very personal manner.  Following the first instance of attraction towards someone of the same sex, a first glance, the first kiss, or the first sexual encounter, one can ... Read more.
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