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How do I approach my sister about liking her best friend’s sister?
Hi Jenna,
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like you're in a frustrating situation. Hopefully this can help you sort out what you want to do. I hear you say that you have a close relationship with your sister, but she doesn't know you are ... Read more.
I can’t stop making lesbian jokes to my friend who hurt me
Hi and thanks for coming to us with your question.
I will do my best to assist you with your problem. So if I understand correctly, you have a female friend with whom you had some sexual chemistry, which eventually led to a sexual encounter between you. After this, however, she ... Read more.
I don’t feel grown up at age 28: I don’t know if I’m gay/bi/straight
Hi Jamie,
First off you are by far not inferior, and not not grown up, due to your inexperience. I promise you are not the first to be in a situation like the one you are in, or at least similar to it.
Many times men that are more in ... Read more.
He reacted well when I came out, but I still don’t know if he likes me romantically
Hi John,
Thanks for coming to us with your question. I'm so pleased to hear that we
helped you the first time you contacted us! I'll try my best to help you with your
new problem.
You seem to have fallen for a friend of yours and you're not sure how he feels ... Read more.
Am I bi? I like a girl on Facebook who dresses like a guy!
Hi Calioppe,
From your letter, it sounds like you may be bi, but that isn't something you should be worried about. Many people are bisexual and feel attracted to or are drawn to members of both sexes. Also, your feelings towards both guys and girls are likely not something ... Read more.
My peers tease that I am gay – but I don’t think I am!
Hi Peter,
Jorge, a friend of mine ,is heterosexual, even though others often tease him and think he is gay. He is very popular among female friends, as he is charming, affectionate, caring and humorous. What I like about him the most is that he pays attention to details of people's ... Read more.
Is it worth opening up to him? I might lose his friendship.
Hi Rodrigo,
Coming out can be very intimidating. Although it may seem overwhelming - try to think of it not so much as you coming out of some sort of hiding, but rather coming into your own. You have obviously been thinking about this for a while, and you're ready ... Read more.
It feels like a hand around my throat – I think I love him
Hello Jackson,
Thanks for writing to Alterheros, I'll do my best to help you answer your question.
You say that all your life, you considered yourself straight, but since your 14th birthday, you feel attracted to your best friend, and the attraction is mutual, you kissed and you miss him when he's ... Read more.
I don’t want to stay lovesick but I don’t know how to avoid it
Hi Elaine,
Once I had a huge crush on a heterosexual friend and I still think about her years after. I understand what you feel the inability to continue this way. It is torturous when you keep such a strong emotion to yourself or when your love feelings are not ... Read more.
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