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My friends say I’m not really bisexual!
Dear Sarah,
There are certainly a lot of people who want to tell bisexuals that
they are "just confused," and that they will eventually make up their
minds as to which gender they actually prefer. I think that the people
who tell you this are just scared of the possibility that they,
themselves, may not ... Read more.
Age gap and bisexuality
Hi Veronica,
I don't think labels are necessarily helpful, since people often judge others with the help of labels, but since you are confused, I will offer my advice. It's hard to say, at this point, whether you are bisexual, bi-curious, lesbian or straight. If you have never had any physical ... Read more.
Alternate versions of
Hi Michele,
Thanks for writing to us with your question!
This is a very interesting question, indeed. As much as we say we hate labels, we always seem to want or need to label things, including gender, sexual preferences, crowd 'clicks', etc.
The fact is, with all the nicknames out there, I have ... Read more.
My cross-dressing boyfriend feels uncomfortable when I cross-dress
Hi Steph K,
Thanks for sharing your story with us at AlterHéros. There seem to be multiple layers to your post:
1. You've recently been experiencing some gender identity dysphoria that you thought you made peace with as a child (you managed to repress any urges to express your male-ness);
2. The ... Read more.
Why do I find men SO physically unappealing?
Dear SpunkAllergy,
If I was to ask you why you love women instead of men would your reply be so heavily estrogen related? Someone does not "switch sides" due to the unappealingness of men so much as to the attraction they have to women for whom they are. That is for ... Read more.
How can I remain straight?
Hello Rocky,
Thank you for your question.
It certainly seems that you are currently living through a difficult period.
From what you say I understand that you are mostly sexually attracted to men. However, you are not able to share the truth about your sexual orientation with your family or friends for fear ... Read more.
If I masturbate to gay male porn how can i be emotionally attracted to women?
Hello Jorge,
Thank you for your question. If I understand correctly, you are currently in the process of exploring different forms of sexuality and trying to better understand your sexual orientation.
First, I'd like to reassure you that these explorations are completely normal in adolescence and young adulthood, and even later on ... Read more.
ID Cards for the Revolution
A new project underway in downtown Montréal may change the way personal ID cards function in Canada. The Solidarity ID Project, introduced by Le Frigo Vert, Concordia’s non-profit, co-operative health-food store, and the 2110 Centre for Gender Advocacy, aims to provide transsexual, transgendered and gender-non-conforming individuals as well as migrant, indigenous and non-status people with a more representative piece of identification.
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