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Is it worth opening up to him? I might lose his friendship.

Is it worth opening up to him? I might lose his friendship.

Question asked by Rodrigo (17 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on October 2, 2010 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Questions, Coming out

Hi Rodrigo, Coming out can be very intimidating. Although it may seem overwhelming - try to think of it not so much as you coming out of some sort of hiding, but rather coming into your own. You have obviously been thinking about this for a while, and you're ready ... Read more.
I’m sure I’m attracted to men, but i’m repulsed by the sight of a penis!

I’m sure I’m attracted to men, but i’m repulsed by the sight of a penis!

Question asked by Sean (19 years old questioning man from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions, Sex

Hi Sean, Seems like you have a lot going on. You say that you have always been attracted to men, but the sight of a penis repulses you. What is it about men that you are attracted to? Are you attracted to men in a sexual way? Being repulsed by ... Read more.
Guiding a gay youth while rejecting his sexual advances to both myself and my partner

Guiding a gay youth while rejecting his sexual advances to both myself and my partner

Question asked by Randy

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in Why act? Why talk about it?, Questions, Outing

Hi Randy, Guiding a “lost” or “new gay” teen is something that is neither simple, nor easy. At least when straight people like teachers, principals, councilors, a school nurse, peer support persons, give information and guide a young homosexual things are clearer for them, youth are then empowered then they ... Read more.
I don’t want to waste my teen years on the ‘wrong’ sex.

I don’t want to waste my teen years on the ‘wrong’ sex.

Question asked by Isaiah (15 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 30, 2010 by

Sorted in Acceptance, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Isaiah, Thank you for writing to Alterheros. I am glad that you are aware of the fact that you are young and thus have plenty of time to decide. First of all, give yourself a pat on the back for that because many people your age are not aware of ... Read more.
I’m having violent sexual dreams

I’m having violent sexual dreams

Question asked by whitney (23 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 30, 2010 by

Sorted in Aggression, Family, Questions

Hi Whitney, I want to start off by telling you that it's a good thing you found a way to redirect your dreams of sex by some means; concerning your new kind of dreams, let me reassure you that it is also normal. Pornography is a double edged thing: it ... Read more.
Depressed – is it my gender identity?

Depressed – is it my gender identity?

Question asked by Ken (17 years old homosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 26, 2010 by

Sorted in Depression, Questions, Transsexuality

Ken, Thank you for reaching out and taking it upon yourself to talk with someone, sometimes the only thing someone really needs is an outlet to talk themselves through their own questions. Gender identity can be a complicated concept to wrap your head around, and there are no clear cut ... Read more.
It feels like a hand around my throat – I think I love him

It feels like a hand around my throat – I think I love him

Question asked by Jackson (14 years old questioning man from Australia, Australia)

Question answered on August 5, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Discovery, Questions

Hello Jackson, Thanks for writing to Alterheros, I'll do my best to help you answer your question. You say that all your life, you considered yourself straight, but since your 14th birthday, you feel attracted to your best friend, and the attraction is mutual, you kissed and you miss him when he's ... Read more.
I want a straight life but enjoy gay porn

I want a straight life but enjoy gay porn

Question asked by alex (21 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 4, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hey there Alex, I hope I can help with your question. I know it's not the easiest thing to talk about considering you and your friend don't even speak about it. To my understanding there's two separate parts to this situation. I understand that your currently questioning your own sexuality, which ... Read more.
Gay/Transsexual porn turns me on but I’m sure I’m straight.

Gay/Transsexual porn turns me on but I’m sure I’m straight.

Question asked by Geoff (23 years old heterosexual man from Switzerland, Switzerland)

Question answered on July 24, 2010 by

Sorted in Facts, Questions, Transsexuality

Hey Geoff, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros and also, thank you for the pat on the back! It's always nice to get some positive feedback from our readers. Now on to your question! From your post, your problem seems to be the following: even though you've always identified as ... Read more.
It might be hard for me to trust bisexuals now

It might be hard for me to trust bisexuals now

Question asked by Chantelle (16 years old homosexual woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on July 24, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions, Relationships

Dear Chantelle, Thank you for writing to Alterheros. I know it is a very tough time for you right now. However, I would like to say that life has its ups and downs, and we all go through making and breaking relationships at some point in our lives. It is ... Read more.
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