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Did I condition myself to like guys? And help for Christian queers.
Hi Kristy!
Thanks for writing in to us at Alterheros!
You mention questioning your sexuality because you saw women as objects of personal sexual desire, but attempted to change this by forcing yourself to think of males, and later choosing to date guys.
You later mention you tried forcing yourself to think about ... Read more.
I have problems with my erections,what should I do ?
Hi Martin,
What you are experiencing isn't an uncommon situation. But to properly answer to your question it would be useful to know if you have had sex (penetration) with another partner before you started this new relationship. If you had sexual contact with another person before then there is ... Read more.
Am I allowed to have sex at my age ?
Dear Tyler,
Thank you for writing us. From my understanding, your girlfriend would
like
to have sex with you (by which I am assuming that you refer to vaginal
penetration by the penis) but you are not sure if you have the right to
do
so because of your age. Also, you seem not ... Read more.
What happens if there is blood?
Hi Keiran,
Thanks for your question.
If there is blood after/during anal sex that could
mean there was damage done to the rectum during
penetration. I would suggest going to get medical
attention immediatly. the damage may or may not
require stiches.
To avoid damage to the rectum during anal sex, use
lube and a condom. ... Read more.
Is anal penetration dangerous?
In order to answer your question accurately, there are two aspects to consider. The first is the safety of anal penetration itself, and the second is the safety of anal penetration with respect to the transmission of infection.
With regards to safety of anal penetration itself, there is no danger ... Read more.
I have been penetrated with a finger, could I have caught an STD?
Hello Peter,
First of all, thank you for posing your questions. No question is a stupid question on AlterHeros, and we take special care in trying to answer all the questions we receive. Your question relates to an important aspect of sexual relationships: STDs and HIV.
As for the risk of HIV ... Read more.
Is sodomy (anal penetration) dangerous?
Hello Eric,
Anal penetration (or sodomy), is not dangerous and will not lead to negative long-term effects when it is practised safely while taking the necessary precautions. Of course, you must be prudent about the types of objects that you insert into the anus. For example, the ... Read more.
Practising Safe-Sex
Everyone is at risk. Everyone. Race, culture, gender, or sexual orientation the AIDS virus does not discriminate. What is HIV? What is AIDS? HIV stands for Human Immuno-deficiency Virus, the virus that causes AIDS. It attacks the immune system, the body's natural defences against infections, bacteria, and other viruses. When HIV develops into its later [...]
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Incest and Child Sexual Abuse: Definitions, Perpetrators, Victims, and Effects
Definition of Child Sexual Abuse Child sexual abuse is any form of sexual activity with a child by an adult, or by another child where there is no consent or consent is not possible; or by another child who has power over the child. By this definition, it is possible for a child to be [...]
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