I don't believe this is a weird question at all; your point of view may or may not be affected by your previous dating experiences, but that put aside, there are 2 possibilities to your feelings:
1) You may feel what is described as 'aromantic', a.k.a. that you don't feel ... Read more.
Thank you for writing to Alterheros. I know it is a very tough time for you right now. However, I would like to say that life has its ups and downs, and we all go through making and breaking relationships at some point in our lives. It is ... Read more.
thanks for your question!
It's always intimidating to admit to someone that we have feelings for them. Some people wait years before admitting it. And at that point, it's often too late to change the course of time or make up for lost time. It does happen, but rarely. Because ... Read more.
The first thing for you to understand is that what label you give yourself doesn't matter. You can be bi, you can be a lesbian, you can be both, or you can just be queer-along with a myriad of other options. It doesn't have to be the defining ... Read more.
I don't think labels are necessarily helpful, since people often judge others with the help of labels, but since you are confused, I will offer my advice. It's hard to say, at this point, whether you are bisexual, bi-curious, lesbian or straight. If you have never had any physical ... Read more.
It sounds as though you really enjoy doing 'girl' things, such as having your nails painted by your female friends. You are young, and at an age where exploration and experimentation is very common.
At this point, it is very hard to say if you are transgender, or simply "different" ... Read more.
Thank you for your question. It is very difficult to discuss who you are when you are not sure that others will accept that person. At the same time, hiding who you really are can be painful. It is also difficult if you have people who are important to ... Read more.
Hello again Mickey,
It's so wonderful to hear that you've had such a big breakthrough concerning your understanding of who you are. You've discovered labels recognised by society that you are comfortable enough to identify with.
Now that you have made this discovery, you seem to have come across new problems regarding ... Read more.
Hi John/Mckayla and thanks for your question!
If you loved cross-dressing so much, but you've only tried it once, wouldn't you like to try it again? This way you would know for sure if the happy sensation continues. Maybe you felt great because it was something new, but if you would ... Read more.
First of all, thank you so much for sharing your situation with us at AlterHéros. We're so pleased that you have entrusted us to help with your very personal and difficult circumstances.
From what you have described to us, there are a number of things that need to be ... Read more.
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