Questions
How do I approach my sister about liking her best friend’s sister?
Hi Jenna,
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like you're in a frustrating situation. Hopefully this can help you sort out what you want to do. I hear you say that you have a close relationship with your sister, but she doesn't know you are ... Read more.
I can’t stop making lesbian jokes to my friend who hurt me
Hi and thanks for coming to us with your question.
I will do my best to assist you with your problem. So if I understand correctly, you have a female friend with whom you had some sexual chemistry, which eventually led to a sexual encounter between you. After this, however, she ... Read more.
I’m wondering if I’m bi but I accept whoever I am!
Hi Nad, thanks for writing to Alterheros with your question!
I understand your confusion about your sexuality and your desire to figure it all out! I think that it is wonderful and important that you aren't particularly bothered by what the answer' might be, and that from what I understand, you ... Read more.
He reacted well when I came out, but I still don’t know if he likes me romantically
Hi John,
Thanks for coming to us with your question. I'm so pleased to hear that we
helped you the first time you contacted us! I'll try my best to help you with your
new problem.
You seem to have fallen for a friend of yours and you're not sure how he feels ... Read more.
I’m a straight female but don’t like my femininity
Hi there,
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. Believe it or not, many people feel the way you feel - disembodied and seemingly the wrong gender, appearance and object of attraction. You are definitely not alone, and it is not abnormal to feel the way you feel, despite ... Read more.
How come I get aroused by shirtless men? I’m sure I like women.
Hey Alex thanks for your question,
First off you are 15, it is perfectly normal at your age to be confused, you are basically right in the middle of adolescence. Most boys start feeling attraction to the opposite sex, attraction to the same sex, attraction to both sexes and/or sometimes ... Read more.
Am I gay if I get an erection while watching gay porn?
Hi Filipe!
Thank you very much for writing in to us at Alterheros. You write that becoming aroused after mistakenly seeing gay porn has caused you to question your sexuality, despite the fact that you are attracted to and have been in love with girls. Your question is not uncommon among ... Read more.
I came out and was well received, but I feel so awkward now
Hi Marco, thanks for coming to Alterheros with your question!
First of all, congratulations on coming out! Although it might seem difficult right now, I hope you remain happy with your decision.
I'm wondering what exactly it is that you are feeling guilty about. You mention that your parents are ... Read more.
Can I be labeled a girl or a boy or something in between?
Hi Elisa,
In your question you express the idea that you may be happier as a boy and wonder what you could identify as.
My short answer would be: you can identify yourself however you wish to.
Labels are usually a quick and easy way to put oneself into a category. Whether it ... Read more.
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