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Should I tell these girls I like them?

Should I tell these girls I like them?

Question asked by Tega (13 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on January 1, 2010 by

Sorted in Extracurricular activities, Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Tega, thanks for writing to Alterheros with your question. Telling someone that you have a crush on them is always a pretty intimidating and scary thing to do! The fact that you are crushing on girls that may or may not like other girls definitely adds to the stress and ... Read more.
Should I kill myself if my teacher reacts badly to my love for him?

Should I kill myself if my teacher reacts badly to my love for him?

Question asked by Prem (23 years old questioning man from India, India)

Question answered on July 2, 2009 by

Sorted in Questions, Suicide, Gay living

Hi Prem, Thank you for writing in. It sounds like you are living through a very difficult and confusing period. First, you are coming to terms with your sexual orientation. I think you are saying that you see yourself currently as mostly attracted to men and consider yourself as "gay." I congratulate ... Read more.
Did I cross a line by telling my friend I have fallen for him?

Did I cross a line by telling my friend I have fallen for him?

Question asked by bao le (45 years old homosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 19, 2009 by

Sorted in Friendship, Love, Questions

Bao Le, You were as truthful as you could be with your friend which is a deep sign of respect towards yourself, and he may or may not see it that way. Regardless of his reaction, you have to take pride in having stood up for what you believe in. Love ... Read more.
I might be ftm transexual

I might be ftm transexual

Question asked by Jordan (21 years old questioning from Australia, Australia)

Question answered on February 19, 2009 by

Sorted in Questions, Transsexuality

Hello Jordan, Thank you for your question. If I understand your question correctly, you are trying to define your gender identity and how it relates to those around you. You seem to be quite far along in the process of deciding for yourself what your gender identity is. I congratulate you for ... Read more.
My friend is acting moody with me since I expressed fear that my boyfriend was interested in her

My friend is acting moody with me since I expressed fear that my boyfriend was interested in her

Question asked by Molly (14 years old heterosexual woman from New Zealand, New Zealand)

Question answered on November 9, 2008 by

Sorted in Friendship, Love, Questions

Hi Molly, and thanks for your question. Thank you for your question. I can understand your distress in the context of this uncomfortable situation. From what you've said about your friend having a delayed reaction and telling you to consider the feelings of others involved....I am guessing perhaps one of two things ... Read more.
I’m afraid girls will not want to be with me if I tell them I’m bisexual

I’m afraid girls will not want to be with me if I tell them I’m bisexual

Question asked by David (24 years old man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 19, 2008 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions, Relationships

Hi David, and thanks for your question. I'm sorry about the difficulties you've recently faced. Coming out to loved ones can be hard to do, even if you aren't exactly telling them that you are gay. It is unfair of her to be name-calling. If she felt that you'd been lying to ... Read more.
My secret life

My secret life

I first realized that i was lesbian about 3 months ago and it has disturbed my mind ever since. It’s been badgering my weary brain like constant and annoying firecrackers going off simultaneously. There’s no way to escape, it’s an ever hanging shroud over my head that i’m always aware of. So this is the first time that I have ever worried to much about telling people something.

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How can I tell my family and friends about being transgender without loosing them ?

How can I tell my family and friends about being transgender without loosing them ?

Question asked by Kevin (16 years old woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on June 9, 2006 by

Sorted in Questions, Transsexuality, Transsexuality at school or at work

Hi Kevin, Thanks for writing to Alterheros with your question. The short answer is that when coming out as trans to friends and families, it is best to be prepared. It is always nice to think and hope that people will respond in an incredibly affirming way, but it ... Read more.
I love a girl, but not in a sexual way, is that unusual ?

I love a girl, but not in a sexual way, is that unusual ?

Question asked by Eric (16 years old homosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 7, 2006 by

Sorted in Love, Questions, Sex

Hi Eric, Frequently, the sexual dimension is present in a love relationship. We all heard about couples that, after a few years, dont feel as attracted as at beginning. For some people, love without sexuality isn't love. For others, sexuality is only one of the relationship's dimension. Concerning your question, you ... Read more.
I came out to my father but he denies it

I came out to my father but he denies it

Question asked by Ara Land (14 years old homosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on September 25, 2005 by

Sorted in Gay & Lesbian, Questions, Lesbian living

Hello Ara, Coming out to one's parents can be fraught with emotional issues, denial, anger and, yes, even acceptance. I commend you on coming out to your dad and I'm sorry that he had such a negative reaction. But you've taken the first big step and now you can choose to ... Read more.
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