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Should I tell these girls I like them?
Hi Tega, thanks for writing to Alterheros with your question.
Telling someone that you have a crush on them is always a pretty intimidating and scary thing to do! The fact that you are crushing on girls that may or may not like other girls definitely adds to the stress and ... Read more.
Should I kill myself if my teacher reacts badly to my love for him?
Hi Prem,
Thank you for writing in.
It sounds like you are living through a very difficult and confusing period. First, you are coming to terms with your sexual orientation. I think you are saying that you see yourself currently as mostly attracted to men and consider yourself as "gay." I congratulate ... Read more.
Did I cross a line by telling my friend I have fallen for him?
Bao Le,
You were as truthful as you could be with your friend which is a deep sign of respect towards yourself, and he may or may not see it that way. Regardless of his reaction, you have to take pride in having stood up for what you believe in. Love ... Read more.
I might be ftm transexual
Hello Jordan,
Thank you for your question.
If I understand your question correctly, you are trying to define your gender identity and how it relates to those around you. You seem to be quite far along in the process of deciding for yourself what your gender identity is. I congratulate you for ... Read more.
My friend is acting moody with me since I expressed fear that my boyfriend was interested in her
Hi Molly, and thanks for your question.
Thank you for your question. I can understand your distress in the context of this uncomfortable situation.
From what you've said about your friend having a delayed reaction and telling you to consider the feelings of others involved....I am guessing perhaps one of two things ... Read more.
I’m afraid girls will not want to be with me if I tell them I’m bisexual
Hi David, and thanks for your question.
I'm sorry about the difficulties you've recently faced. Coming out to loved ones can be hard to do, even if you aren't exactly telling them that you are gay.
It is unfair of her to be name-calling. If she felt that you'd been lying to ... Read more.
My secret life
I first realized that i was lesbian about 3 months ago and it has disturbed my mind ever since. It’s been badgering my weary brain like constant and annoying firecrackers going off simultaneously. There’s no way to escape, it’s an ever hanging shroud over my head that i’m always aware of. So this is the first time that I have ever worried to much about telling people something.
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