scenario
I met this guy, but I don’t know if I should tell him my feelings
Hi John!
Thanks for taking the time to write to Alterheros about your dilemma. It's always hard to let someone know of your feelings when you're not sure how they will be received.
As you know, your choices pretty much are either to tell him or not. If you tell him, best ... Read more.
I’ve fallen for my friend but I don’t know if she would date a girl -what should I do?
Hi Sophie,
Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros. Ahh
Being in love. It can be the wonderful and amazing feeling when you find that special somebody that feels the same way about you. It can also make you go crazy when you fall in love ... Read more.
The relationship of shame to the coming-out process in gay men and lesbians
Scenario 1You're on the school playground during recess. You're about nine years old. You see a group of kids playing and you walk over to join their game. As you approach — halfexpectant, half-apprehensive — one of them sneers at you and another laughs. You hesitate a moment, wanting to move forward, but wanting to [...]
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Working Out: Taking It Too Far
I witnessed this scenario at a nightclub recently. It’s remained in my thoughts for some time. Being “hot” is an undeniably appealing prospect, and, let’s face it, a ripped, gym body can raise your “hot factor,” especially in the gay scene. For many, a great body can create a sense of self-confidence that even a [...]
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