Hi Tori, thanks for writing to Alterheros with your question!
I understand that it can be stressful when you realize that your feelings for someone are more than friendly. You might start to wonder all sorts of things like if and how you should tell them, will they feel the same ... Read more.
Thank you for coming to AlterHeros with your question.
It sounds like you are beginning to become aware of your attraction to girls and you are wondering if, and why, you are bisexual. Further, you are unsure on how to deal with being a bisexual and wish to meet ... Read more.
Thank you for your letter.
It is difficult to realize who you are and then to feel that others do not accept you. But it is wonderful that you are so clearly sure of who you are and whom you are attracted to. That is a really big step that ... Read more.
First of all, I want to tell you I am sorry for having taken so long to answer your question. It has nothing to do with you.
The situation you describe seems to be very sad. You seem to suffer from loneliness and misunderstanding from your parents. From what you ... Read more.
It sounds like you are confused about your online relationship with a man outside your marriage. You seem to be questioning your priorities and values when it comes to relationships and families.
You may need to take a step back from the situation and decide what you value more. On ... Read more.
I believe that frank words are always the best solution. Believing someone knows you have feelings for her by the way you act around her is not something you can really trust, since you assume something you never actually discussed with her. She might know, but might as well ... Read more.
It is difficult to overcome fears and we need courage to do it. It's normal to worried about other's reactions, new steps in our life and about things we don't know. Moreover, we cannot be sure of which events will happen and it can scare us a lot.
You are ... Read more.
Your question seams to be beyond just sexual orientation, you bring elements of depression and psychological health to your question.
We at Alterheros are an educational website about sexual orientation and sexual diversity. We strongly recommend that people facing difficult situations in their life like depression be diagnosed and helped or ... Read more.
It is already a great step that you admitted to yourself your attraction to men. In that sense, you're already out of the closet.
Coming out to your family, friends and peers may seem like the scariest thing you ever did in your life, but keep also in mind that it ... Read more.
If l was you, l would start by being proud of myself, and happy: you are 22 you have clear idea of who and what you are. It's almost funny that too often just being yourself can hurt others, and even worse, those that you love so much. ... Read more.
Parles-en aux experts is a project of the nonprofit organization AlterHeros, which aims the heathly development of all individuals regarding with their sexual orientation, gender identity and sexuality. We are based in Montreal, Canada.