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My boyfriend is bisexuel, I am insecure that I will not completely satisfy him…

My boyfriend is bisexuel, I am insecure that I will not completely satisfy him…

Question asked by jessie (27 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 17, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Jessie! Thanks for writing to AlterHeros about your situation. Just to rephrase it, your boyfriend told you recently he's bisexual and it causes a conflict of emotions in you, both excitation and insecurity. Those feelings are totally normal, and it's normal to be confused. I believe in this situation communication ... Read more.
I’m jealous of

I’m jealous of

Question asked by Jason Morris (21 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 16, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions, Transsexuality

Hi Jason, Thanks for writing into Alterheros! You seem to be having some confusing feelings about whether or not you are transgendered. You mention that you have always aroused yourself by fantasizing about being a woman in a sexual encounter with a man. Even though you are attracted to women, ... Read more.
She won’t date me but won’t keep her hands off me

She won’t date me but won’t keep her hands off me

Question asked by Tiffany (16 years old woman from El Salvador, El Salvador)

Question answered on September 9, 2009 by

Sorted in Friendship, Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Tiffany! Thanks for coming to AlterHeros with your question. It sounds like your friend is giving you some mixed signals. She has previously denied your requests to go on a date, but at the same time, she acts rather affectionately towards you. First off, it's important to have a serious talk ... Read more.
Making gay jokes may have changed the dynamic between my best friend and I. How do I fix it?

Making gay jokes may have changed the dynamic between my best friend and I. How do I fix it?

Question asked by Ahmed (18 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on June 12, 2009 by

Sorted in Friendship, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Ahmed, It is possible that your best friend is probably gay, and was trying to come out to you, but was frightened off by your shocked reply. I mean, if you two used to joke around in the past, and you say that you liked it, he probably took your reciprocation in this ... Read more.
I’m a girl. So is she. How can i be sure she likes me?

I’m a girl. So is she. How can i be sure she likes me?

Question asked by Tyler ( questioning woman)

Question answered on March 17, 2009 by

Sorted in High-school, Homophobia at school, Questions

Hi Tyler, thanks for sending us your question! From what I can tell, you are having a hard time figuring out if the girl that you have a crush on might like you back. This is never an easy thing to do and often gets complicated. So my suggestion to you ... Read more.
Does my friend have feelings for me?

Does my friend have feelings for me?

Question asked by diva (34 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on April 15, 2008 by

Sorted in Friendship, Questions, Relationships

Hi Diva – thank you for your question. Relationships are difficult, both with friends and with partners. Sometimes the most difficult, but also that which may be the most satisfying, are when we commence a romantic relationship with someone who was previously a good friend. If I understand correctly, your question is ... Read more.
I work with a girl that I like. What should I do?

I work with a girl that I like. What should I do?

Question asked by Sarah (17 years old woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 30, 2007 by

Sorted in Love, Questions, Relationships

Dear Sarah, I believe that frank words are always the best solution. Believing someone knows you have feelings for her by the way you act around her is not something you can really trust, since you assume something you never actually discussed with her. She might know, but might as well ... Read more.
My friend is a total homophobe, and I don’t know what to do

My friend is a total homophobe, and I don’t know what to do

Question asked by Emily Wallace-Way (13 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on April 7, 2006 by

Sorted in Friendship, Homophobia and transphobia, Questions

Hi Emily, Thanks for sharing your story with us and I hope this will be of help. If you want to share your feelings with her, maybe talk to her about what it is that's going on inside you but try to avoid words like homosexuality, lesbian etc if it makes her ... Read more.
I miss so much my friend…

I miss so much my friend…

Question asked by Kary (11 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on December 13, 2005 by

Sorted in Friendship, Love, Questions

Hello Kary, It is difficult when you are not allowed to see someone you like a lot. It is normal that you think about her since this moment and that you miss her. Because you have been friends with your best friend since kindergarten, it is difficult to know if you ... Read more.
Having a crush on another bisexual girl

Having a crush on another bisexual girl

Question asked by Katherine (15 years old woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on July 12, 2005 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions, On the field

Hello Katherine! Thank you for sharing your question with us! First of all, have you ever talked to this girl? When did you start looking at each other? Regardless of the answers to these questions, the only way to know if she likes you is to go see by yourself. Go ... Read more.
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