Thanks for writing to AlterHeros about your situation. Just to rephrase it, your boyfriend told you recently he's bisexual and it causes a conflict of emotions in you, both excitation and insecurity. Those feelings are totally normal, and it's normal to be confused. I believe in this situation communication ... Read more.
Thanks for writing into Alterheros! You seem to be having some confusing feelings about whether or not you are transgendered. You mention that you have always aroused yourself by fantasizing about being a woman in a sexual encounter with a man. Even though you are attracted to women, ... Read more.
Thanks for coming to AlterHeros with your question.
It sounds like your friend is giving you some mixed signals. She has previously denied your requests to go on a date, but at the same time, she acts rather affectionately towards you.
First off, it's important to have a serious talk ... Read more.
It is possible that your best friend is probably gay, and was trying to come
out to you, but was frightened off by your shocked reply. I mean, if
you two used to joke around in the past, and you say that you liked
it, he probably took your reciprocation in this ... Read more.
Hi Tyler, thanks for sending us your question!
From what I can tell, you are having a hard time figuring out if the girl that you have a crush on might like you back. This is never an easy thing to do and often gets complicated. So my suggestion to you ... Read more.
Hi Diva – thank you for your question.
Relationships are difficult, both with friends and with partners. Sometimes the most difficult, but also that which may be the most satisfying, are when we commence a romantic relationship with someone who was previously a good friend.
If I understand correctly, your question is ... Read more.
I believe that frank words are always the best solution. Believing someone knows you have feelings for her by the way you act around her is not something you can really trust, since you assume something you never actually discussed with her. She might know, but might as well ... Read more.
Thanks for sharing your story with us and I hope this will be of help.
If you want to share your feelings with her, maybe talk to her about what it is that's going on inside you but try to avoid words like homosexuality, lesbian etc if it makes her ... Read more.
It is difficult when you are not allowed to see someone you like a lot. It is normal that you think about her since this moment and that you miss her.
Because you have been friends with your best friend since kindergarten, it is difficult to know if you ... Read more.
Thank you for sharing your question with us! First of all, have you ever talked to this girl? When did you start looking at each other? Regardless of the answers to these questions, the only way to know if she likes you is to go see by yourself. Go ... Read more.
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