Myths & prejudices

I get more excited about women, but would prefer to have a boyfriend

I get more excited about women, but would prefer to have a boyfriend

Question asked by Nicole (15 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on December 6, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Causes of homosexuality / sexual orientation, Questions

Hello Nicole, First off, I would like to commend you on standing up for gay rights and supporting the gay community! I know it is not an easy thing to do to stand up to your peers and confront them about something important to you. In your statement, you said that ... Read more.
Threeway without having sex with the other guy

Threeway without having sex with the other guy

Question asked by Rick (18 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on October 2, 2010 by

Sorted in Entertainment, Misconceptions & Clichés, Questions

Hi Rick, Thank you very much for reaching out to Alterheros. I understand that you are interested in having a 3 way relationship and wondering if this is crazy or normal. You also mentioned that you would not have sex with the guy. First of all, I don't know if there is such ... Read more.
Not looking for a sex change, but want to be castrated

Not looking for a sex change, but want to be castrated

Question asked by Andrew (44 years old questioning from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in Alienation, Prejudices, Questions

Hi Andrew, thank you for writing to us with your question. I can't tell through your question whether or not you consider yourself to be a transgendered person, or not. For the purposes of answering your question though, I will be assuming that you do consider yourself to be transgendered. Just ... Read more.
Gay/Transsexual porn turns me on but I’m sure I’m straight.

Gay/Transsexual porn turns me on but I’m sure I’m straight.

Question asked by Geoff (23 years old heterosexual man from Switzerland, Switzerland)

Question answered on July 24, 2010 by

Sorted in Facts, Questions, Transsexuality

Hey Geoff, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros and also, thank you for the pat on the back! It's always nice to get some positive feedback from our readers. Now on to your question! From your post, your problem seems to be the following: even though you've always identified as ... Read more.
I fantasize about women during foreplay with my boyfriend

I fantasize about women during foreplay with my boyfriend

Question asked by lauren brown (25 years old questioning woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on June 14, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Misconceptions & Clichés, Questions

Hi Lauren, Thank you for coming to Alterheros with your question. In your question, you explain that you are happily in a relationship with your boyfriend and are thinking about engagement and marriage. You also bring up that you sometimes fantasize about other women during foreplay but not during sex* with ... Read more.
I’m not into stereotypical gay men – I want male energy, not female energy!

I’m not into stereotypical gay men – I want male energy, not female energy!

Question asked by Craig (26 years old homosexual man from South Africa, South Africa)

Question answered on May 12, 2010 by

Sorted in Misconceptions & Clichés, Questions, Gay living

Thank you for your question, Craig, It is difficult to determine everyone's exact sexual interests, ie. desires, lust, fantasy, sexual wants/needs, emotional state. Human sexuality is something that is very complex, there are even therapists that are called Sexologists. They study human sexual behavior in University for 3 years and more ... Read more.
Repulsed by men since I was raped, I don’t know if I’m a lesbian

Repulsed by men since I was raped, I don’t know if I’m a lesbian

Question asked by Linzi (31 years old woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on March 16, 2010 by

Sorted in Causes of homosexuality / sexual orientation, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Linzi, I think what's especially important when someone does something bad to us is not to generalize. Each person is unique in his or her own way and this is why stereotyping should be avoided. I'm not trying to take away from the gravity of the incident that occurred, because ... Read more.
I want to cut off my breasts!

I want to cut off my breasts!

Question asked by Laura (21 years old homosexual from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 10, 2010 by

Sorted in Misconceptions & Clichés, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi Laura! Thanks for writing in to us at Alterhéros. It sounds like you're having a tough time with your body right now. You write about not liking your breasts and about some issues you've run into with an non-traditional appearance. I'd like to assure you that you are certainly not alone ... Read more.
Our parents caught us kissing and now I have to go to Catholic school!

Our parents caught us kissing and now I have to go to Catholic school!

Question asked by Siobhan (15 years old homosexual woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on February 25, 2010 by

Sorted in Family, Misconceptions & Clichés, Questions

Hi Siobhan, I would like to salute you, first of all, for being brave and seeking help. I truly believe that a problem shared is a problem halved. I too, was in the same situation, as many other LGBT, when I was younger. It never dawned on me something that seemed ... Read more.
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