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It's always intimidating to admit to someone that we have feelings for them. Some people wait years before admitting it. And at that point, it's often too late to change the course of time or make up for lost time. It does happen, but rarely. Because ... Read more.
Hi Tega, thanks for writing to Alterheros with your question.
Telling someone that you have a crush on them is always a pretty intimidating and scary thing to do! The fact that you are crushing on girls that may or may not like other girls definitely adds to the stress and ... Read more.
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Bottling up feelings and not being able to tell your friends who you are can put a lot of stress on yourself. However, I want to let you know that you're not the only one experiencing this situation. I know some of ... Read more.
I applaud your interest in the transgender and gay communities, and I think your assignment topic deals with a very important human rights issue that more people should be talking about. You are asking about two different minority groups, and I will discuss each in turn.
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Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. Meeting other people who share your interests and find places to make friends that you connect with and have fun takes some effort, and creativity! Sometimes it can be a bit of a lengthy process to find a good circle ... Read more.
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This must be an exciting time for you, but perhaps also a little frightening? A little lonely? It seems from your question that you are searching for like-minded GLBT (gay-lesbian-bisexual-trans) teens to date and perhaps also to just talk to.
Unfortunately I do not know where ... Read more.
Hi Guy, thanks for your question.
Being young and out is never easy, now teens sometimes feel ready to come out of the closet and start dating at 13 and 14 years old! When you're a young teen it's sometimes difficult to find others your age, lot's of stuff is off ... Read more.
I don't think labels are necessarily helpful, since people often judge others with the help of labels, but since you are confused, I will offer my advice. It's hard to say, at this point, whether you are bisexual, bi-curious, lesbian or straight. If you have never had any physical ... Read more.
Hi Walter. Thanks for sending in your question!
It's always stressful when someone we have strong feelings for seems so unattainable . This would be especially difficult with the sort of competition that seems to be happening between you and your friend about this girl. I understand why you seem ... Read more.
Hi Tyler, thanks for sending us your question!
From what I can tell, you are having a hard time figuring out if the girl that you have a crush on might like you back. This is never an easy thing to do and often gets complicated. So my suggestion to you ... Read more.
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