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(Français) Je la déteste, mais j’hésite à la quitter

(Français) Je la déteste, mais j’hésite à la quitter

Question asked by Milly (Femme en questionnement de 34 ans, Martinique)

Question answered on November 4, 2014 by

Sorted in Questions, Relations de couple, Loneliness

Bonjour Milly, Merci de nous faire confiance en nous écrivant. La situation que tu nous décris est complexe et difficile, mais j'espère pouvoir te donner quelques point de réflexion. À ce que je peux comprendre, toi et ta conjointe n'avez clairement pas le même projet de vie. Elle est casanière et ... Read more.
I have sexual fantasies about my father when my partner goes down on me

I have sexual fantasies about my father when my partner goes down on me

Question asked by ElizaM (30 questioning woman, United States of America)

Question answered on December 27, 2013 by

Sorted in Questions, Sex, Sex & relationships

Hi ElizaM, First of all I want to say thank you for trusting AlterHeros by writing to us about this difficulty you are living. We also apologize about the delay for this answer. What you are describing must be very disturbing to you and not easy to deal with. If I understood ... Read more.
(Français) Je me suis masturbé en pensant à mon meilleur ami, que dois-je en penser?

(Français) Je me suis masturbé en pensant à mon meilleur ami, que dois-je en penser?

Question asked by ayoubi (Homme de 24 ans, France)

Question answered on April 25, 2013 by

Sorted in Depression, Questions

Bonjour Ayoubi, Merci beaucoup de nous écrire. Il y a plusieurs mois, vous vous êtes masturbé en pensant à votre meilleur ami. Vous n'avez pas eu d'érection, mais vous avez ressenti des sensations agréables. Normalement, ce ne sont pas les hommes qui vous excitent, physiquement et émotionnellement, mais les femmes. Depuis ... Read more.
(Français) Comment dire à mes proches que je veux être un homme?

(Français) Comment dire à mes proches que je veux être un homme?

Question asked by Lysandre (Femme de 17 ans, France)

Question answered on April 25, 2013 by

Sorted in Being transsexual and homosexual, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions, Am I transexual, transgender or travesti?, Transition, Transsexuality

Bonjour! Merci énormément de la confiance que tu nous porte en nous envoyant cette lettre. Dans celle-ci, tu nous indique que non seulement tu aimes les hommes, mais que tu sens en être un aussi. Mais tu crains la réaction de tes proches, tu te demande quoi faire... Tout d'abord, tu ... Read more.
(Français) Mon enfant est-il homosexuel?

(Français) Mon enfant est-il homosexuel?

Question asked by soizic

Question answered on January 21, 2013 by

Sorted in Questions

Bonjour Soizic!       Read more.
(Français) A partir de quel âge peut-on subir une mastectomie ?

(Français) A partir de quel âge peut-on subir une mastectomie ?

Question asked by Matt ( de 17 ans, Canada)

Question answered on June 12, 2012 by

Sorted in Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions, Transition

Cher Matt, La question que tu poses est très pertinente et je ne suis pas étonné que tu aies du mal à trouver une réponse définitive. Tout cela vient du cadre légal particulier dont jouissent les jeunes de 14-17 ans au Québec. Tu as droit de regard sur les ... Read more.
I am wondering if my teacher has a crush on me…

I am wondering if my teacher has a crush on me…

Question asked by Diane (16 woman, United States of America)

Question answered on March 18, 2012 by

Sorted in High-school, Questions

Hi Diane, Thanks for writing to AlterHeros.  You are wondering if your teacher might have a crush on you, because she is staring at you and telling you compliments.  Schools are sometimes like little universes in themselves, and a lot of things can happen there - love, conflicts, friendships, etc.  But ... Read more.
I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…

I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…

Question asked by Will (19 man, Canada)

Question answered on February 19, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Questions

Hi Will, Thanks for writing to AlterHeros.  If I understand your question correctly, you are developping feelings for one of your friends, who is a lesbian woman, and you are having negative feelings about the outcome of a disclosure.  All of that is "giving you headaches", as you are saying.  For ... Read more.
(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

Question asked by Justine (Femme de 15 ans, Canada)

Question answered on January 31, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Self-esteem, Questions, Relationships

Bonjour Justine, D'abord, je te remercie de la confiance que tu nous accordes. Premièrement, tu dis entretenir une relation privilégiée avec une amie, qui serait peut-être pour vous deux, une relation plus sérieuse qu'une simple amitié. D'un côté, je ne sais pas si cette fille est la première ou l'une des premières filles ... Read more.
I feel more comfortable around women than men. Am I a lesbian?

I feel more comfortable around women than men. Am I a lesbian?

Question asked by Sandy (25 questioning, Canada)

Question answered on July 23, 2011 by

Sorted in Definitions, En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions, Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

Hi Sandy, Thank you for writing to Alterheros with your questions. You bring up a few different ideas and concerns about your sexuality and whether or not it has been influenced by witnessing other people’s abusive relationships. You say that you feel threatened by men and in turn, prefer to be around ... Read more.
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