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I’m wondering if I’m bi but I accept whoever I am!

Hey! For a few months now, I've been thinking a lot about my sexuality. I think I'm bi. But here's where I am a bit confused: I only fall in love with men, but I'd rather have sex with women (I'm still a virgin, but I sometimes fantasize about women). I'm still young and naive and I don't have much experience in love and sex (never had a boyfriend and I'm not really in the lookout for a relationship), but I feel bad. I don't want to objectify women, but that's how I feel: fall in love with a man, have sex with women. Am I a horrible person?! >.< I still haven't told ANYONE about this. But I really do want to talk to someone about my bisexuality. Is it just a phase? Is it wrong of me for feeling this way about men and women? Should tell anyone (I do have a bi male friend, but he never ever talks about it)? Anyway, I really don't know what to do or how to feel. Whatever the answer, I accept and love who I am. I still love to love, whatever the sex. Thank you! :)


Am I androgynous or transsexual?

I’ve realized that I’m not stereotypically female, and don’t want to be. My vague masculinity and physical appearance have lead people to assuming I’m lesbian. I don’t feel a physical attraction to men or women, and know that I’m pansexual, but I don’t know whether I’m androgynous or not. I feel uncomfortable with my female body, but I’m not completely sure I should be male. I remember wanting to be a boy and believing I should’ve been as a kid. During high school, I felt reluctant to have the mistake the school made as labeling me male fixed. Recently, I’ve had the desire to bind my chest, and feel hesitant whenever I’m asked to identify my sex. When I have to, I want to say I’m male. I want to look masculine and have a flat chest, but not a penis. I don’t desire any kind of surgery beyond having my ovaries removed. I felt relieved learning of androgyny, but now I’m uncertain and scared. Am I really androgynous or actually transsexual?


I’ve always taken pride in my androgyny – am I transgendered?

I'm a lesbian, as of a few years ago, and I've been relatively happy with that until fairly recently. I'm 16, and I feel the need to be male. But not really a masculine male, I'd like to still be able to be pretty. I've also found myself attracted to men again, as well as women, but a relationship with a man wouldn't feel equal or right in a female body. I've always taken pride in my androgyny, even as a child, I'd cross dress and go in public. Does this mean I'm transgendered, and if so, how long before I should tell my parents?



I have a testosterone problem, how concerned should I be ?

I have always had gender dysphoria to a large extent and have many anomalies from VATER Association. I had my testosterone levels checked in June of 2009 (bioavailable...the better test) and on a scale of 47 - 244 I was at 77. I had it checked in June of this year and it had dropped down to 46. I was started on testosterone replacement therapy 8 weeks ago and I was tested yesterday and now I am down to 28. How concerned should I be? Does this indicate a problem with my pituitary gland?


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I’ve read stories on here more than a few times, sometimes to feel not so alone, others to discover the many different ways of living and to hear people’s unique experiences with gender and sexuality. I’m not sure what I am anymore, I’ve gone through so many different identities I’m not even sure people will believe me if I give them a new one. But the path to finding yourself has so many twists and turns and has never been a straight line. Sometimes we stop and look at the possibilities and rather than pursuing our way down the path we push ourselves into something easier. Sometimes it’s not all that easy but it’s better than waiting for an answer, waiting to be told that were something more or something different.