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Can I be labeled a girl or a boy or something in between?

Lately I've wondered if I would be happier as a boy. I don't hate my female body parts, I don't mind my breasts, though I think they look better in other people. I don't feel "trapped in the wrong body", but it isn't right either. I also have trouble with my sexuality, I am not turned on by anything but male gay porn, and feminine men. I am not boyish at all, and like feminine clothes, all except skirts. Am I transgendered? Should I be a boy? I don't think I would be a "boy", as in the stereotypical type, I am much more like a girl in that way. But sometimes I wish I was a gay boy. I wish people would ask me: "Elisa, what would have happened if you were born a boy?" I only have female friends, I am comfortable around them, and not attracted to them, I hate having periods, and I envy boys in some ways, yet I can tell women have it better in others. Can I be labeled as "girl" or "boy"? Am I something in between? Help, please!


Is it normal to be erect and flaccid, alternately?

i have read your reply to a question asked about wether masturbation can be harmful and may i say i am very relieved by the answer you gave. i was just wandering if frequent erections (as in maybe 2 in the same hour) wether submitted to sexual material or not can be seen as a problem? i am aware of men becoming impotent, but is there a title given to the polar opposite- frequently alternating between flaccid and erect without prompting?


How can I be in a relationship with a man if I don’t find him sexually attractive?

Hello For all of my life, I have always been attracted to males emotionally and romantically, and have never once thought about being with a woman in that way. However since the age of 11, I have found women very sexually attractive, and only found men sexually attractive in a minor way. So I guess you could say that I am sexually attracted to women, but emotionally attracted to men. This situation is confusing me a lot, and I really do not know what I am going to do in the future. How can I be in a relationship with any man if I do not find them sexually attractive? I know that I am not trying to kid myself about being emotionally attracted to men, I really do love them. At the moment a boy and I are having very strong romantic feelings towards each other, however when the subject of sex comes up it gets awkward. I have a very strong connection with this boy, and the thought of not being able to be with him because of this makes me really upset. Any help is appreciated greatly.



I don’t have many chances to talk to boys, but maybe I prefer girls?

I'm a 16 year old girl. I've never had a boyfriend before. I don't have any brothers and I go to an all girls school. I don't socialise with people outside of my immediate family and school friends, so I don't have any friends that are boys (as opposed to boyfriends). Recently I was talking to a boy I met on a volunteer programme. I thought he was nice, but I wasn't sexually attracted to him. This got me worried about why I wasn't attracted to him. I began to worry that I might be gay, even though it had never ever occurred to me before. Once I started thinking about it, I couldn't get the thought out of my head. Suddenly, I began to find women sexually attractive, even though I never had before. I have always found guys good-looking, but I have always known when girls were pretty as well. All I've ever wanted, old-fashioned as it sounds, is to get married to a man and have children. I don't understand this. I don't have a crush on any girl at all, and never have. Please help.


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Learning you are Bisexual means loneliness at 16

I have learned to love being Bisexual even though I'm leaning a more towards the gay side. Reason – I like a girl but she doesn't like me back. We act like a perfect couple. I told her I'm bi; we're best of friends. But I can't find any gay or other bi boys where I live. I'm really lonely at night when I think I don't have anybody.


Living a Lie

I have lied to myself one to many times and it wasn't until a few days ago that I couldn't keep lying to myself. No matter how much I tried to find middle ground and make myself less of a mess it was always there. No matter how much you try to compromise with your heart it always remains the same.



I am attracted to men sexually, but I go out with women

I have fantasies about men and maturbate while thinking about men on my cross-country team. And I also masturbate while thinking about pictures of naked men I can find on the computer. And I had my penis sucked by one male and I sucked his penis as well. But right after I'm done with everything I still don't lose interest in men. But I do not date men. I only date women. I am attracted to women in terms of going out with them but not sexually. What does this make me? Should I tell the men I want to have sex with the most how I feel or just keep it a secret? Should I ask them to have sex? I am just unsure now because I am attracted to them for different reasons.


Should I take hormones to become a girl?

I'm a girl trapped in a boy's body. I've only cross-dressed once, but it was the best feeling of my life! The thought of painting my nails and wearing make-up gives me amazing thrills. Is it a good idea to use horomones (when I'm in college) and completely and legally change my identity so that no one knows that i was John but was always Mckayla?


Am I bisexual?

Hi. My name is Leela. I am 14 years old. Ever since I was little I've been curious about the opposite gender. I really like guys but I am also attracted to girls as well. I definitely like guys more than girls but I am confused. If I am bisexual I could never tell my family. They have strong opinions about that sort of stuff and they would kill me! I would have to say that I am more sexually attracted to girls but at the same time I have a fear of having sex with a guy because I'm afraid it will hurt. I don't know if that is the reason I am more sexually attracted to girls or not. I need major help and advice!!!