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Is she unconsciously sending me a sign with her body language?

Hello, A complicated situation but to get to the point - I have a boyfriend of 2 years, however I have feelings for a girl in my class (I am a girl) I think she does give me some body language signals from what I have read up on in books she seems to do, for example unconsciously point at me with a body part from across the class and I see here staring directly at me for about 5 seconds sometimes with a wide smile other times just staring, (I try not to stare at her) however this could just be me interpreting this all wrong? On the way back from college, we speak on the bus and she doesn't say direct things that would insinuate she likes me too but she does smile a lot and look at my eyes and lips for longer than usual people would. I just don't know whether to tell her at the end of college in 3-4months time how I feel? Other than my boyfriend I don't fancy any other boys although I have had a crush or 2 on other girls but not as strong as I feel for this one girl Please help


My friend and i like each other but now her boyfriend gets in the way

When I moved here from California, I didn't have many friends because I was quiet and my now best friend, Victoria, was one of the first people to befriend me. Over the past few years i've been become attrcted to her as more than a friend. I had let her know and we talked about and she said that she had been having the same feelings. The problem is that I had confronted her too late. She now has a boyfriend whom she says she loves very much, and I know I should be happy for her, but everytime I get near her, her boyfriend starts getting really physical and won' even let me hug her. I want to stay friends with her, but it hurts me to be around her when he's there. And he's ALWAYS there, so I never get a second alone to talk to her. I've always liked boys, never girls, so his is really hard for me and I'm afraid if I tell her what I think of her bf, she'll be mad at me and I really don't want to lose her.


Non University-run bi/gay organizations

Hi Alter Heros, I do not know if I am in the right section of the site but I hope I am. I am looking to meet other gay or bi guys in the West island or Montreal. However, I do not know where to search. Mcgill University and Concordia University or other college social gatherings are out of the question. I have my reasons why. Also, I am looking for an anglophone environment where there are people around my age, I am 28. I am looking for a social gatherings and sports gatherings. Can you please help me with this issue? Thanks.




I am androgynous and pansexual-but how do I communicate that to people?

Not to long ago I discovered that I was androgynous which was honestly the happiest day of my life. I've never felt so good to understand who I am. I'm also pansexual. But not a lot of people are familiar with these terms. A lot of people seem to blindly say things against who I am. I don't blame them for not knowing about androygnous but I do still hurt when they use words like daugther or girls or boys. I mean why must I choose a side? I just don't know how to get people to understand exactly what I mean. It's so hard to explain to them why I'm androygnous. I mean I didn't choose to be it I just chose to accept it and now I must try and and live with it and get by with all these questions like "please check male or female for your gender" I mean what do I pick? I'm reminded every time I sign up for something or even when I'm shopping in both "men" and "women" sides of the store. I don't know what to do anymore? How do I make this huge part of me known?!