Je n’ai aucune expérience avec les femmes, mais je les désire… suis-je lesbienne?

Bonjour, je suis une femme de 21 ans. Je me pose des questions à propos de mon orientation sexuelle depuis quelques temps (moins d'un an). Quand j'ai commencé à me poser des questions, j'étais très perdue, mais maintenant, plus le temps avance, plus cette sensation s'apaise. J'ai déjà eu des copains (j'ai pas eu beaucoup d'expériences, à part de les embrasser), et je n'ai jamais ressenti de « désir sexuel » pour eux (et pour les hommes en général). J'ai vraiment pris conscience cette année, que des filles avec qui j'étais au collège, du lycée, et de la fac (etc) m'attiraient (j'avais confondu ça avec de l'admiration). Je pensais être bisexuelle. Hors maintenant, je regarde que les femmes (et elles m'attirent physiquement et sexuellement). Je regarde de moins en moins (voir quasiment plus) les hommes. Est-ce que même sans expérience je peux connaître mon orientation sexuelle ? En vous remerciant par avance, je vous prie d'agréer l'expression de mes salutations distinguées.


Puis-je savoir si je suis lesbienne si je n’ai jamais eu de relation avec une fille?

Bonjour.Je me demande si je peux vraiment savoir si je suis lesbienne si je n'ai jamais eu de relation ni de rapport avec une fille .Tous mes fantasmes se dirigent uniquement vers les filles ,je rêve de fille la nuit ,j'adore être à cote d'une jolie fille à côte de moi et si elle mets sa main sur ma peau ou passe près de moi je ressent des frissons ,le coeur qui bas très fort ,je mate uniquement les filles ,j'aime enormement le corps feminin,j'adore leur compagnie et j'ai embrasser une fille un jour et c'etait une experience geniale et intense, pourtant parfois mais vraiment plus rarement je regarde les garçons mais le sexe d'un homme me degoute .Ma mère aussi ne pense pas que je sois lesbienne mais que je ressente juste de l'amitié mais je ne crois pas ressentir ça.Aussi ca ne fais que 1 ans que je ressent ça .Aussi je ne connais pas bien la communauté lesbienne et comme je ne suis pas du tout androgyne ni masculine j'ai peur de ne pas être accepter.Pouvez vous m'aider ? Merci à vous

I’ve never had a crush… am I a lesbian?

I don't think I've ever had a crush. When I look at guys I really don't feel anything and when I look at girls I do notice if they're attractive or whatever. I mean I can tell when boys are attractive and stuff but I've never been attracted to one. With my friend we do nose kisses and then I can't stop thinking about kissing or how we could kiss right then. Does that mean I'm lesbian. My stomach fluttered a little when she held my hand. My mom was talking about being lesbian but the way she was saying stuff made me feel like she thought I was lesbian. Am I just thinking I'm lesbian because my mom thinks I am? I just really need some help figuring out all of my confusing feelings.

I feel more comfortable around women than men. Am I a lesbian?

How do I know if I'm straight and only feel threatened by men because of the experiences,I've seen, of other women at the hands of abusive men? How do I know if I'm genuinely attracted to women and not just because they are non-threatening? I'm a 25 year old female and have never been in a relationship. I've seen many abusive relationships between heterosexual couples, and the idea of being physically intimate with a man scares me. So each time someone expresses interest in me I shut them down. More recently, I've thought that I may be a lesbian because I'm more comfortable around women and spend more time with women than men. The only men that I feel comfortable with are men who have character traits typically associated with women and men that are openly gay. I am very close to my female friends and now feel self-aware when I'm with them because of the possibility of being attracted to them. Is there any way to know if I'm straight, a lesbian or bisexual?

Can I be a transwoman and a tomboy ?

Hi I am biologically male but have gender issues and confusion. All my life I felt something was "off" and felt very alienated and most of the time hated myself. I managed to come by though, I presented as a guy as much as I could, despite constantly second guessing my actions ("I wonder if I'm considered male enough if I do this?"). Despite liking girls I've always been a bit confused about my sexuality. Even though I jokingly identified myself as a lesbian female for a long part of my life, I realize now how true these feelings are. I've never shown blatant transsexuality, I've never put make-up on, I've never dressed except in private (shamefully)... I used my penis normally. So I'm really confused if I can still be transsexual but not like makeup or feminine clothes like all the classic cases... it wouldn't be "me"... In the correct life for me, I'd have been a tomboy femme lesbian. I really HATE being male now, and I'm getting more and more depressed, almost suicidal :(

Am I still a lesbian if I’m attracted to my transgender friend?

I'm a lesbian that has been with the same butch lesbian for a while. My question is: could I still be considered lesbian if I've been dreaming and having sexual thoughts about transgender people F2M? I have found myself very aroused by there looks... I guess i'm writing this because i haven't had sex with my partner in over two months because i just don't seem attracted to her as much as I did before. I love my girlfriend very much but, I'm at a loss on what to do and tell her. I have a friend that's transgender (as well as others) and, I cant seem to stop thinking about him... When i'm around him nothing matters anymore I feel complete... He's smart, funny, sexually attractive, and very easy to talk to. I can totally see us being together but, i cant get myself to hurt the person im with because, im a bit confused on why im attracted to him and not her anymore.... Please help!!

I can’t stop making lesbian jokes to my friend who hurt me

I've been knowing this girl for like.a year who's now my best friend.. I could tell when I first meet her that she was confused about something.. we got close to each other kissed all the time, touchyfeely or whatever.. later had a sexual experience that she stopped that same day.. I told her.. that no matter what I would always be a friend and now where best friends... she became more open to me about everything.. telling me I'm the first and only guy she's ever been with. but she's scared to be with me because she done wanna running our friendship... but that's not the point... come to find out her last two years of high school she had a girl friend.. yep she was a lesbian.. I was so confused as to the way we were together.. now it's none of that we just hang out with each other and I can't help but make lesbian jokes to her about it.. cuz I'm hurt.. I tell her it hurts.. because I was patient and in the end all I got was a best friend.. but I still feel the same way.. help me.

I get more excited about women, but would prefer to have a boyfriend

About a year ago, I began to be attracted to gay men, in looks and stereotypical personalities, and watching them "do stuff" turns me on. I became sort of obsessed with the gay community and started watching logo, reading gay books, etc, and standing up for gay rights whenever it's mentioned. I thought I was a little weird, but still considered myself straight, just something of a "fag-hag". But, lately, I've found myself more attracted to women than guys. When I think of women, I tend to get more excited than I do with men, but I like the idea of a bf more than a gf. I feel like a total hypocrite saying this, but I'm terrified of the thought that I might be a lesbian. I've always hidden my "gay obsession" from my dad because I know how he'd react, but my mom knows and she asked me once if I was a lesbian and I gave her a definite "no". I feel like I'd be betraying her if I decided I was. I'm very shy and have never had a boyfriend, crush, or male friend since I was 7. What do (...)