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Did I condition myself to like guys? And help for Christian queers.

So, I have always questioned my sexuality. When I started "self-pleasuring" myself about 3 yrs. ago I only ever thought about girl. When I realized that this wasn't exactly normal, I started forcing my self to thing about guys. So now, I have dated guys, but I don't really feel an emotional attraction to them (only very little). Sexually speaking, the idea of penetration doesn't bother me, but thinking of a penis doesn't really turn me on. With girls, I am very attracted to them physically. So am I bi?... Did I in a way condition myself to like guys all those years ago?...Or am I a lesbian in denial? Also if there is any advice for a gay teenager whose Christian, that would also be very helpful. Thank you <3 Krisy


Where could I meet more bisexuals in Vancouver, B.C.?

i think i'm bi because i'm attracted to both females and males. i was wondering where could i meet more bi's in my area? (vancouver, bc, canada) i'm 14 and i have a crush on my friend and i recently found out she is also bi ,should i ask her out or should i just try to get to know her better? i'm not that close to her btw.





How can I remain straight?

i am so confused i always try not to look at guys but its just happened, rarely i attract to girl i have had sex with guys and not much with girls. grown up with my sister and mum treat me like a girl change my thought. i havent told any body that i sleep with guy because i worry what they will think and say. truly i dont want to be gay but when i see a guy i feel something but not with girl. another thing its easy to find guys than girls. please help me to change my thinking to girls.


I would like to know about resources for transgender individuals in Ontario

Okay so now that I am out to myself about being transgender, I was hoping you guys could tell me some names of support groups. I know you guys are in Montreal which sucks because I live in Hamilton, Ontario. So I was wondering if you knew any support groups in that area or Stoney Creek, Ontario. I'm having trouble finding them. Thanks for your help.



I am attracted to someone else than my husband but I don’t want to lose my family

I am a mother of 2 kids... The problem started when my girlfriend taught me how to chat; then I became addicted to chatting. I also met this guy at the chatroom and then we became very close to each other but we never met in person. We see each other only on the webcam... Our relasionship stayed that way for nearly 3 years... I don't know when it will stop but i know this is wrong because I have a husband who is good and kids. I kept telling myself this guy is just my past-time but now I am not so sure anymore. I don't want to lose my family or this guy because I know that he loves me and I think I love him too. Please help me deal with my feelings. Maybe I have made a mistake..



Should I develop a relationship with someone I met online?

My question is about being in a relationship with a person you met online. About seven years ago, I met a boy on a forum and since then we have talked every single day for hours, we watched each other grow up, we know each other's flaws and strengths and for the most part we can accept each other's differences. Over the past two years this has developed slowly and gradually into a very deep relationship, even past the crush stage to something closer to love. We have no way of knowing until we meet each other. Is this a good thing to do? Should we go for it even with the societal stigmatization that comes with it? And even if our families may not think it is the best thing to do?