pansexuality


How do I fit in as pansexual at the age of 13?

I identify as a pansexual, but I feel like I don't fit in with the LGBT Community. Is pansexuality a homosexual subgroup or something else? I am 13 and feel that if I come out people will just ask "how do I know" since I'm young and not fully matured. I don't want to feel like I have to lie to my friends and friends. I feel lost and confused and feel like I no one to turn to.


I am androgynous and pansexual-but how do I communicate that to people?

Not to long ago I discovered that I was androgynous which was honestly the happiest day of my life. I've never felt so good to understand who I am. I'm also pansexual. But not a lot of people are familiar with these terms. A lot of people seem to blindly say things against who I am. I don't blame them for not knowing about androygnous but I do still hurt when they use words like daugther or girls or boys. I mean why must I choose a side? I just don't know how to get people to understand exactly what I mean. It's so hard to explain to them why I'm androygnous. I mean I didn't choose to be it I just chose to accept it and now I must try and and live with it and get by with all these questions like "please check male or female for your gender" I mean what do I pick? I'm reminded every time I sign up for something or even when I'm shopping in both "men" and "women" sides of the store. I don't know what to do anymore? How do I make this huge part of me known?!