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How do I approach my sister about liking her best friend’s sister?

question #1: hi, I'm in love with my sisters best friends little sister (magan), but my sister doesn't know I'm bi. me and my sister are really close and i want her to no how i feel but she hates the idea of gays and bis. what should i do,(my deepest fear is that she'll be grossed out by me and not be as close anymore) if i cant get her to understand, i don't think ill have the nerve to ask magan to go out with me publicly. and question #2: hi, i no u get this a lot but I'm really not sure what to do.. I'm bi and i really like my friend who is also bi (she knows I'm bi). here's the thing we were drinking with her friend and we ended up fooling around, like all three of us, but i want us to be more than just that, tho I'm not sure she wants that. how do i let her no? please help. to make things worse her big sister and mine are best friends and both of them don't no that we are bi, so it would be bad if we ended up going out.. wouldn't it? please help thanks <3


My peers tease that I am gay – but I don’t think I am!

I'm peter,15 years old....Since last month I'm afraid of turning gay.....but i don't want to as i have fell in love only with the opposite sex....and i don't think i will fall for men in the future...but at school I'm very friendly with girl and i always like to crack jokes among them. Some boys always say that I'm gay. When they say that I'm gay...i feel anxious and angry.....during my life time,i had watched only straight porn not gay porn.I don't know why they say that I'm....are they jealous that girls talk with me??or am I gay???.......since I'm very anxious and this is affecting my sex drive.I don't want to become gay but since they said that I'm gay ,i becoming very confused.....am i straight ???am i gay???or am i bisexual???


I’ve always taken pride in my androgyny – am I transgendered?

I'm a lesbian, as of a few years ago, and I've been relatively happy with that until fairly recently. I'm 16, and I feel the need to be male. But not really a masculine male, I'd like to still be able to be pretty. I've also found myself attracted to men again, as well as women, but a relationship with a man wouldn't feel equal or right in a female body. I've always taken pride in my androgyny, even as a child, I'd cross dress and go in public. Does this mean I'm transgendered, and if so, how long before I should tell my parents?



Though we fight a lot and he seems to have a lover, I have feelings for him.

I have feelings for someone and I think I'm completely in love with this person. We are both good looking men, the only problem is we do fight a lot. I think I'm in love for the first time but this person confuses me a lot. We have never been intimate and i do get this feeling he has someone, his brother in law works with me and confirmed that he doesn't have anyone.I do work for a security firm in South Africa and asked him if he does have a Alarm system with us, seeing that I do have access to all clients i did my own search and came up with his residence but came across his boyfriends details.I saw a picture of him and this person on the internet hanging around a night club in Johannesburg. I did ask him about it and he was upset, his boyfriend told everyone on facebook that they going through a rough patch. He told me to leave him alone but now and then I do receive an sms or e-mail from him.@ times he will even dial my extension number to speak to his brother in-law. confused.


Not looking for a sex change, but want to be castrated

i'm a 44year old male but i don't class myself as a male or female however i do wear womens' cloths some times and underwear 24/7 i don't even own a pair of men's pants i'm not looking for a sex change but i am desperate to be castrated as i hate having erections i have no interest in women only men and i'm totally submissive i need to talk to my doctor but here in the UK they seem very unwilling to help how do talk to my doctor about this subject without making myself look a complete lunatic i don't want to go to some seedy bdsm club /s&m party where things can go wrong, please help


I don’t like calling myself a lesbian, and I want to remove my breasts

What am I? I'm 23, female I have a girlfriend we have been together for 3 years that makes a lesbian right? but, i do not feel comfortable saying that i am a lesbian, i don't like when people points and says you're a lesbian because i don't really feel like a lesbian. It feels weird to say "i am a female" and i know for sure i don't want to be a man, people usually mistakes me for a boy but i have a big breast that makes me look like a woman, i would like to get chest surgery because I've always wanted to get rid of my boobs i don't like them at all. I love my vagina. I love, love women but I often have sexual dreams about men but i don't think i can be with one. I like the idea of looking like girlyboy or a boyishgirl but i don't know why I've always think that way i feel really confused i don't fit in,i don't like the idea of being a lesbian just because i was born a female and like females or being a FTM just because i want to get rid of my boobs and wanna look boyish, Please help meee!!



It might be hard for me to trust bisexuals now

Ok, here goes. I am gay and I would hesitate and the idea of dating another bi-sexual female because the last girl I was with for 6 months suddenly told me she wanted a break, this lasted a week and then she text me to tell me it was over. I was so confused because everything was going so well. Initially I asked of her sexual-orientation and she said bi and that I was the first girl she had been with. After dating her for about 5 months she tried to make her male friends feel bad and said " i get more p****y than you". Personally I thought she just wanted me so she could tell everyone that she had dated a female. But now she is 3 months pregnant so basically this happened while I was with her and she didn't have the decency to tell me. She dumped me out of the blue and made me feel like I was in the wrong. I know all bi-sexuals are not like that so I wont make a generalisation but it will be very hard for me to trust a bi-sexual female.


Am I attracted to my female friends or is my wetness from something else?

Hi. Well first, every since i was about 10 people have said they think i am gay. I guess when people say something about you, you begin to believe it. I have several gay friends because i don't separate myself from them like others do. But i am beginning to feel attracted to a couple of my friends mainly my friend from school and my best friend since we were babies. But I'm not attracted to them sexually, its there personality that attracts me. I mean they both do have large female( boobs and butt) parts but that's not a reason. (My friend from school is bisexual and my best friend is straight). Does this mean I'm gay. I spent the day with my best friend just hanging out and i come home and fine myself 'wet', also what should I do? Please help me I'm stuck between a crossroad, and did i mention i am in a relationship with my boyfriend.