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I feel more comfortable around women than men. Am I a lesbian?

I feel more comfortable around women than men. Am I a lesbian?

Question asked by Sandy (25 questioning, Canada)

Question answered on July 23, 2011 by

Sorted in Definitions, En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions, Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

Hi Sandy, Thank you for writing to Alterheros with your questions. You bring up a few different ideas and concerns about your sexuality and whether or not it has been influenced by witnessing other people’s abusive relationships. You say that you feel threatened by men and in turn, prefer to be around ... Read more.
I’m afraid my boyfriend will act out his fantasies.

I’m afraid my boyfriend will act out his fantasies.

Question asked by Anne (27 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on January 19, 2011 by

Sorted in Questions, Sex, Sex & relationships

Hi Anne, Thank you for coming to AlterHeros with your question. From your statement above, you explain that you have recently found out about your boyfriend's sexual fantasies and desires to watch transsexual (Male to Female) pornography. You are frightened that your boyfriend will act on his sexual fantasies. Additionally, you are questioning ... Read more.
How do I approach my sister about liking her best friend’s sister?

How do I approach my sister about liking her best friend’s sister?

Question asked by jenna (17 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on December 21, 2010 by

Sorted in Family, Questions, Coming out

Hi Jenna, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like you're in a frustrating situation. Hopefully this can help you sort out what you want to do. I hear you say that you have a close relationship with your sister, but she doesn't know you are ... Read more.
I get more excited about women, but would prefer to have a boyfriend

I get more excited about women, but would prefer to have a boyfriend

Question asked by Nicole (15 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on December 6, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Causes of homosexuality / sexual orientation, Questions

Hello Nicole, First off, I would like to commend you on standing up for gay rights and supporting the gay community! I know it is not an easy thing to do to stand up to your peers and confront them about something important to you. In your statement, you said that ... Read more.
Threeway without having sex with the other guy

Threeway without having sex with the other guy

Question asked by Rick (18 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on October 2, 2010 by

Sorted in Entertainment, Misconceptions & Clichés, Questions

Hi Rick, Thank you very much for reaching out to Alterheros. I understand that you are interested in having a 3 way relationship and wondering if this is crazy or normal. You also mentioned that you would not have sex with the guy. First of all, I don't know if there is such ... Read more.
I cheated with a girl. He took me back but am I bi? Lesbian?

I cheated with a girl. He took me back but am I bi? Lesbian?

Question asked by Laura (21 years old questioning woman from Peru, Peru)

Question answered on August 4, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Laura, Thank you for writing into Alterheros with your question. You explain that you recently had an experience with a girl while still in a relationship with your boyfriend. After disclosing this to your boyfriend, he is willing to put this aside and to continue the relationship, but you ... Read more.
It might be hard for me to trust bisexuals now

It might be hard for me to trust bisexuals now

Question asked by Chantelle (16 years old homosexual woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on July 24, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions, Relationships

Dear Chantelle, Thank you for writing to Alterheros. I know it is a very tough time for you right now. However, I would like to say that life has its ups and downs, and we all go through making and breaking relationships at some point in our lives. It is ... Read more.
How can I be in a relationship with a man if I don’t find him sexually attractive?

How can I be in a relationship with a man if I don’t find him sexually attractive?

Question asked by Emily (16 years old questioning woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on July 7, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Emily, Your message shows that you are caught in great dichotomies: female versus male, emotional/romantic attachment versus sexual attraction, and assertion and confusion. It also indicates that you pay attention to various components of a relationship, and that you care deeply for the boy you are with. This by no ... Read more.
I fantasize about women during foreplay with my boyfriend

I fantasize about women during foreplay with my boyfriend

Question asked by lauren brown (25 years old questioning woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on June 14, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Misconceptions & Clichés, Questions

Hi Lauren, Thank you for coming to Alterheros with your question. In your question, you explain that you are happily in a relationship with your boyfriend and are thinking about engagement and marriage. You also bring up that you sometimes fantasize about other women during foreplay but not during sex* with ... Read more.
Even through mixed messages I think she likes me

Even through mixed messages I think she likes me

Question asked by jess (21 years old questioning woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on May 31, 2010 by

Sorted in Friendship, Questions, Relationships

Hi Jess, thanks for coming to Alterheros with your question. I understand that you are frustrated about your relationship with your friend and trying to find out whether she reciprocates the feelings that you have for her. I will assume that you are more or less ok with your own feelings ... Read more.
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