sex


Have I fell in love with my best friend?

Recently I've come out as bisexual yet I am still questioning my gender identity. A few days ago I had a conversation with my best friend about sex, and now I am thinking about her as a partner. What does this mean?


[:fr]I’m a guy and I’m in love with my lesbian best friend. What should I do?[:en]I’m a guy and I’m in love with my lesbian best friend. Should we have sex together? [:]

[:fr]Hi! I’m a 20 year old heterosexual guy, and I have been in love wih my best friend (who also happens to be a lesbian) for 3 years. She has been my best friend since we were 6 years old, so I have nearly my hole life shared with her. We drifted apart between 14-18 years old, but the moment we reached out to each other we immediately became friends of the “as close as you can get” type. We are both preety smart and talented in life in general, and that mental capability has allowed us to be able to think clearly about our situation from the moment I told her I loved her, despite her sexual orientation. We have an amazing connection, and recently we tried making out for hours to know how we felt, but she started it, not me. She also told me that she thought of having sex with me, but knowing that she can't feel the same way I feel about her. I don't know what to do, because I can separate my romantic feelings from the pure sexual desire pretty well, but it still feels wrong... Help? ;)[:en]Hi! I’m a 20 year old heterosexual guy, and I have been in love wih my best friend (who also happens to be a lesbian) for 3 years. She has been my best friend since we were 6 years old, so I have nearly my hole life shared with her. We drifted apart between 14-18 years old, but the moment we reached out to each other we immediately became friends of the “as close as you can get” type. We are both preety smart and talented in life in general, and that mental capability has allowed us to be able to think clearly about our situation from the moment I told her I loved her, despite her sexual orientation. We have an amazing connection, and recently we tried making out for hours to know how we felt, but she started it, not me. She also told me that she thought of having sex with me, but knowing that she can't feel the same way I feel about her. I don't know what to do, because I can separate my romantic feelings from the pure sexual desire pretty well, but it still feels wrong... Help? ;) [:]


I don’t feel grown up at age 28: I don’t know if I’m gay/bi/straight

I'm a 28-year-old, sexually entirely inexperienced man who has for the larger part of his life been trying to figure out his sexual identity. Since I was about 14 I've experienced frequent emotional attraction exclusively to the opposite sex but physical attraction only to the same sex. Physical attraction, however, also only to males I don't know and have never met, i.e. faceless, nameless fantasies I masturbate over through gay porn. But I've never been attracted to a male friend e.g. Instead I tense and cramp up when someone unexpectedly touches me. I've also never sought out random sexual encounters with men I don't know as it's merely the fantasy of it that intrigues me and I don't believe I could go through with it. As a result of my inexperience and confusion I feel very inferior to everyone and not grown up at all. When people ask me if I'm gay, straight or bi, I'd like to give them an honest answer but since I don't know myself I only get embarrassed. What would [you suggest?]



I’m a straight female but don’t like my femininity

I've always been confused about my gender... I'm a straight female, but I don't identify with being female at all. I never have, even when I was quite young. But the strange part is, I have a very strong attraction to masculine men, the same men I envy in every way due to their gender. I have a very feminine appearance, the large curves, the small frame, and I hate it. I hate how small and womanly I look. I don't relate or connect to other women on any level. They make me feel uncomfortable, just very out of place. The majority of my friends are male. I often feel like a gay man trapped in a woman's body and it bothers me to no end.


How come I get aroused by shirtless men? I’m sure I like women.

I have seen your site and feel very confused. I have always fantasized about girls since I started thinking about Sex and have only had crushes on girls, but sometimes when I see a someone with his shirt off or when I am in the locker room I get aroused. Gay Porn doesn't turn me on and recently I have tried thinking about gay sex too but that does not turn me on either. I feel very confused because I have never wanted to go out with or have sex with another man, but recently I have started obsessing about my sexuality. I am not homophobic but how can I be heterosexual and get aroused by men with their shirts off?


My peers tease that I am gay – but I don’t think I am!

I'm peter,15 years old....Since last month I'm afraid of turning gay.....but i don't want to as i have fell in love only with the opposite sex....and i don't think i will fall for men in the future...but at school I'm very friendly with girl and i always like to crack jokes among them. Some boys always say that I'm gay. When they say that I'm gay...i feel anxious and angry.....during my life time,i had watched only straight porn not gay porn.I don't know why they say that I'm....are they jealous that girls talk with me??or am I gay???.......since I'm very anxious and this is affecting my sex drive.I don't want to become gay but since they said that I'm gay ,i becoming very confused.....am i straight ???am i gay???or am i bisexual???



I’ve always taken pride in my androgyny – am I transgendered?

I'm a lesbian, as of a few years ago, and I've been relatively happy with that until fairly recently. I'm 16, and I feel the need to be male. But not really a masculine male, I'd like to still be able to be pretty. I've also found myself attracted to men again, as well as women, but a relationship with a man wouldn't feel equal or right in a female body. I've always taken pride in my androgyny, even as a child, I'd cross dress and go in public. Does this mean I'm transgendered, and if so, how long before I should tell my parents?


Threeway without having sex with the other guy

Hi, I am 18 years old and have suddenly begun to really want a 3 way relationship. Am I crazy? I'm a guy and I want a guy and a girl. I want us all to love eachother and makeout and kiss...etc, but I wouldnt have sex with the guy. We could both be with the girl though. Sort of like in the movie "The Dreamers".


Not looking for a sex change, but want to be castrated

i'm a 44year old male but i don't class myself as a male or female however i do wear womens' cloths some times and underwear 24/7 i don't even own a pair of men's pants i'm not looking for a sex change but i am desperate to be castrated as i hate having erections i have no interest in women only men and i'm totally submissive i need to talk to my doctor but here in the UK they seem very unwilling to help how do talk to my doctor about this subject without making myself look a complete lunatic i don't want to go to some seedy bdsm club /s&m party where things can go wrong, please help