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How do I approach my sister about liking her best friend’s sister?

question #1: hi, I'm in love with my sisters best friends little sister (magan), but my sister doesn't know I'm bi. me and my sister are really close and i want her to no how i feel but she hates the idea of gays and bis. what should i do,(my deepest fear is that she'll be grossed out by me and not be as close anymore) if i cant get her to understand, i don't think ill have the nerve to ask magan to go out with me publicly. and question #2: hi, i no u get this a lot but I'm really not sure what to do.. I'm bi and i really like my friend who is also bi (she knows I'm bi). here's the thing we were drinking with her friend and we ended up fooling around, like all three of us, but i want us to be more than just that, tho I'm not sure she wants that. how do i let her no? please help. to make things worse her big sister and mine are best friends and both of them don't no that we are bi, so it would be bad if we ended up going out.. wouldn't it? please help thanks <3


I get more excited about women, but would prefer to have a boyfriend

About a year ago, I began to be attracted to gay men, in looks and stereotypical personalities, and watching them "do stuff" turns me on. I became sort of obsessed with the gay community and started watching logo, reading gay books, etc, and standing up for gay rights whenever it's mentioned. I thought I was a little weird, but still considered myself straight, just something of a "fag-hag". But, lately, I've found myself more attracted to women than guys. When I think of women, I tend to get more excited than I do with men, but I like the idea of a bf more than a gf. I feel like a total hypocrite saying this, but I'm terrified of the thought that I might be a lesbian. I've always hidden my "gay obsession" from my dad because I know how he'd react, but my mom knows and she asked me once if I was a lesbian and I gave her a definite "no". I feel like I'd be betraying her if I decided I was. I'm very shy and have never had a boyfriend, crush, or male friend since I was 7. What do (...)


Am I bi? I like a girl on Facebook who dresses like a guy!

i know a girl from FB, she's pretty but she's dress-up like a dude... hen i saw her at the first time i can feel my heart beat fast and my face blushing, like: " OMG... She's so cute..." and everyday i always thinking of her.. but, when i know she's already in a relationship, i feel sad very very disappointed, but im only interested with a very tomboy or butch girl, but i still thinking boys are cute.... Am I BI? Why? can someone straight turn into BI after they're boyfriend hurting and dumped them?



I came out and was well received, but I feel so awkward now

Hi, I just came out to my parents and I guess they took it relatively well. My mom and dad assured me they still loved me and wont treat me any different but I can't help but feel REALLY awkward and disconnected around them now. I know it's the first day but I feel badly that they have to go through this. Whenever I see that they're upset i always want to fix it, but I can't fix this. Will I ever feel comfortable around my parents like I did this morning before I told them?


I hate love and dating – they’re boring!

Dear Expert, I have a question. My question is it weird to hate dating and falling in love or being in love? I hate dating and love. I think it's waste of time being in love. I think it is very boring to fall in love. I'm not bisexual. I didn't tell anyone how I feel. But it is weird to hate love or dating?


Should I ask her if she’s bisexual?

I'm a girl and I think this girl I've only known for three months likes me. I have classes with her and I would often see her staring at me and if I look back at her, she would break the contact and I think she only does this because she's shy. Sometimes, she would walk around me dreamily and I don't know if she really does this with her other friends. Then, just recently, I was sitting on my desk and she walked up to me and she suddenly held my hand and I thought she was finally gonna tell me that she likes me but she didn't. Apparently, she was showing a friend her technique on arm wrestling. What confused me more was why was it me that she had do that arm wrestling technique with when she had friends sitting near her desk. I admit liking the touch of her hand. I don't know if she's bisexual too, like me, because her crushes are mainly guys (celebrity guys). What should I do? Should I ask her?



It feels like a hand around my throat – I think I love him

Hello. Am I Bi-Sexual or Bi-Curious? I'm 14 years old And Im Really Confused. All My Life I've Been Straight Untill My14th Birthday. I Never had Any Feelings For The Same Sex, But When I Turned 14, I Suddenly Felt An Overwhelming Attraction To My Best friend. He's Admitted To Me That He Is Bi, But I Can't, I Don't Know If I Am Or If I'm not. We have Been Best Friends For Over two years Now, And during All That TimeI Never Even Had A Spark With him, But Now It'sAll Changed. We've Kissed On A Few Occasions Just for Me To See If I Felt Anything. But When I did, I Was So... Happy. It's Like, When I'm With him, It's Like Fireworks Are Exploding Around Us. It Feels So Magical. But when he's Not There It's Feels Like There's A Hand Around My Throat, Grasping As Tight As Can Go, Restricting me to Breathe. I Think I Love Him. I Almost Slept With Him. But It's Not Just With Him, I Also Think Other Boys ( And Still Girls) Are Atrractive. I Just Want Your Help, Does th...


I want a straight life but enjoy gay porn

hello i have a question im straight or at least i want to be straight i would love to have a family and live a straight's life ... but my question is why do i like looking at gay porn and get hard by looking at guys have sex but when i masturbate after im done im like "i dont wanna have sex with a guy no more" but i have a friend that we always drink hang out and were most of the time together he is just like me he is STRAIGHT but he doesn't feel attracted to guys at all we have gotten drunk really drunk a couple of times and i have given him oral sex and played with him (no fornication) sometimes he says stop so i stop and he tells me it feels good but its just not right but then we start wrestling and leads to the same thing again. next morning we act like if nothing happened , it has happened more than once . wo you think he is gay or curious ?


Gay/Transsexual porn turns me on but I’m sure I’m straight.

Hey thanks for the great service! I have a question that's been bugging me. I've always identified as straight, throughout my life I've only had sexual and emotional attractions/relationships with girls, never once been attracted by men, but in the past year or so I've found myself turned on by the actual act of gay/transsexual sex. I'm not sure whether it's just the raw 'sexiness' of it or whether I'm trying to repress something, but I just hope this isn't the beginning of me turning bi or gay, as I love my hetrosexuality too much to give it up. I feel like I have no control over what turns me on but I just don't like it and wish I didn't feel it. The idea of romance or any kind of intimate contact with a man in real life would do nothing for me, but seeing it in porn and wondering about the sensations is a real turn on for me. Any ideas about this? Wish I could just understand why these feelings happen, it's making me really upset. Thank you!