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I am in the UK, she is in the U.S. – can we get married?

i am an english woman and in love with the most wonderful woman in CHICAGO, we so much want to spend the rest of our lives together, but have only been together for 6 months. i want to move to her from uk. we are independent women, but your law wont let me in as we are gay, please help us.


My friend touches and kisses me, is he joking around with me or is he straight?

i have become very good friends with my friend who i started to hang around a lot with in September, and we have got very close, i have fallen for him deeply and cant stand it when i'm without him, i want to know if he is gay/bi though, he always jokes around saying "i love you" and you're "sexy" and stuff. i know it sounds stupid but sometimes it seems like he actually means it, he touches me and has even kissed me a few times. i have also kissed him a few times and he hasn't cared!, he's at my house every day. nearly all day!. he always sleeps at my house too when he can. i cuddle him like holding him in my arms and he doesn't care either. He also put his hands down my trousers once and rubbed.. he didn't say he was joking afterwards. He has done this a few times. ahh. i like him soooo much but i don't know if to ask him if hes gay/bi... i don't know how he will react or ruin our friendship. :( . but would a straight person do all that though?? but I mean he does this most days, please help me..


Did same-sex sexual abuse turn me gay?

I'm 20 years old and would like to know something. It's kind of a weird question to ask, but I will anyways. When I was 7 years old, I was molested by a 40 year old man on several occasions. I didn't know it was a bad thing to do at the age of 7. I feel so betrayed now and hurt. This man was my first sexual contact with anyone and I wanted to know if he made me gay?



Where can I marry my same-sex partner ? I live in Ohio !

As a young adult, having been with my boyfriend openly and accepted by my family and friends for more than 2 years now, I feel as though we're both ready to take our relationship to a 'promissory' level, and have some sort of commitment ceremony. I live in Ohio, and there is next to nothing that is 'legally' recognized, however, I would more than love for a ceremony of some kind to take place, even if it's not recognized legally. What are my options, and where should I go from here? Thank you for your time!



My friend is acting moody with me since I expressed fear that my boyfriend was interested in her

Recently I became paranoid that my boyfriend, who is really good friends with one of my best friends, would start to want to be with her instead of me. I told them both that I felt threatened and my boyfriend understood and reassured me that they were only friends and could never be anything more because of the way they interacted. I trust them both and I believe them. Anyway, a few days after I spoke to them about how I felt and got it resolved, my friend brought it up again and started to act really moody with me. She said that she felt like I didn't trust her anymore but I do! I wasn't sure why because she doesn't really have much to do with the matter apart from being the girl that I felt threatened by. She told me to think about others involved and how they felt so I asked her how she felt and she said it wasn't about her and blew me off. Why is she bringing it all up again after we solved the problem? How can I prove that I trust them and how can I fix our friendship? Please help!!



I had an abortion for my boyfriend, and now he tells me he does not love me anymore

I have been with my boyfriend for one and a half year. Recently, he has changed so much, and he's no longer the guy I once fell for. Last year, I aborted our baby because he told me that he didn't want to be tied down. After what happened, he started to refrain from making love to me by using his religion as an excuse all of a sudden so that he doesn't have to deal with the responsibility for getting me pregnant again. Now, he acts secretively as though he has someone else in his life. He used to be very loving towards me. I thought that he would appreciate & cherish me more after what happened. I even agreed not to mention anything about marriage as he has no intention to settle down. He treats me nicely when he's in the mood but he also hurts me and treats me like badly most of the time, especially when he is asking me why am I still upset over an aborted baby. Yesterday, he told me that he doesn't love me anymore. How can I make him love me again?