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If I could pass, would my family support me if I decided I was transgender?

I've been crossdressing since 5th grade, in my moms lingerie and other clothes. It started out just out of curiosity, but I couldn't stop. I love it because I do feel feminine which doesn't scare me. I have to admit there is some arousal too. I've also fantasized about being a girl and having sexual relations with another male, but I"m still attracted to girls mostly. I recently became friends with a mtf transgender girl and I find myself speaking more in a feminine tone with her like we were best friends. Depression has really hit me lately. There are times where because of how i feel when i dress as a girl, its no longer just about love of crossdressing, but in truth I like looking in the mirror and it feels right. Am i just a transvestitecrossdresser or should I consider that I might be a woman inside. The last year I've been getting these strong feelings towards being a woman and it only bothers me because I don't know if I could pass and if anybody in my family would support me.


I think I have sadism, gender, sexuality issues

I think I may be having gender, sexuality and sadism issues. Where gender is concerned, I'm biologically female. However, I completely loathe the idea of anyone perceiving me as such, but I know there's no way for me to be male and I don't want to be one. I'd prefer to be neither or both. And I'm not attracted to men or women- but I am really attracted to the idea of them being hurt, sexually or otherwise. Whenever I hear that some young, promising person has committed suicide, or a very loved child has been murdered, it really excites me, until I realize how disgusting that is and I don't know what to do. Part of the reason why I don't want to be perceived as female is because they are perceived as vulnerable- I like that on other people but not me. I don't think any of this is right. I have no romantic options like this, I would like them, but I just don't like other people. Am I sadistic + asexual or just messed up in the head? How can I accept it or change?



How can I tell my mom I’m transsexual while I’m still young?

I want to come out to my mother as a transsexual. She knows I'm bisexual, but she's still doing the "it's just a phase" thing. Other than that, she seemed open enough about it, and overall accepts my sexuality. I want to tell her about this now, while I'm still young. I'm not sure if she'll be supportive. How can I tell her in a way that'll be easy for her, and maybe encourage her to support my decision?


I am terrified to reveal my true sexual identity

For about three years now I've been attempting to come to terms with my issues concerning gender and sexuality. I am fifteen years old, and have fully accepted myself as being born in the body of a woman but having the mind and spirit of a man. I've felt nothing but confusion and pain ever since I came to terms with this. I can't stand my body, and I want things to be corrected as soon as possible. The thing is, I am absolutely terrified of telling my friends and family about my feelings and desire to change the person they know. Neither group is very understanding when it comes to sexuality and things like that. I've dealt with severe depression, and still do, mostly because of my gender identity problems. So I have a therapist, and he understands...but has no words to help this fear. I'm scared that they'll disown me, or that I'll be the complete screw up of the family and they'll all be ashamed of me. How do I get over this fear and just come out with it?!


Limited trans resources in Saskatchewan Canada

I'm a transexual and have been all my life and moved to Saskatchewan when I was 18. I haven't found any kind of support here for transsexuals and I have been alone, completely alone in this, for about 20 years now in Saskatchewan. I am tired of doing this alone and need a support group. Are there any support groups in Sask? I've emailed several groups, including Pflag, and have gotten no response. Is anyone getting my emails? Thanks, Stephen =-)




I want to be a boy, but I don’t want my parents to throw me out!

So my problem is this: I want to be a boy. But my mom and dad seem to be completely disgusted by gays, lesbians, bisexuals, or transexuals. I've tried to give them hints. Even though I hang out with mostly girls, a have a few guy friends who don't care that I'm biologically female. I've even told my parents I want to be a boy! All my parents said was that it was just a phase. They may be right, because I've only been feeling this way for a few years. But puberty hit and now I think I'm depressed. I don't want to talk to anyone so I stay in my room where I can live as a boy. Well, I have an idea of what I should do, but I can't support myself if my parents decide to throw me out. Thanks for your time.


I was heart-broken by guys, now I like lesbian porn, how can I change that?

I am a girl of 22 years.i was straight til now.i had two boyfriends with whom i had some petting kinda sexual relationship.i was really in love but they broke my heart.Now i kinda of hate boys i thought it would change but i like lesbian porn.i want to change it.HOW?i need help.or how can i live